Thanks to the movie reference I know this was after July 29 1998. I was in school in Ohio and visiting my family in ND. My sister and I took our cousins age 11 and 8 to this movie. And their brother was four or so months old. I had to check my handy dandy family birthdays notecard that my mom started for me. Matthew was added in my writing along with the next generation. I love it.
Our town cemetery has nice wide paths and people walk, jog, learn to drive there. I took David and Tom there to ride their bikes while I ran yesterday and that was our last visit for a few years. They decided to race to the headstone that said Cohen. And Tom somehow crashed into it. Fortunately for me (and the Cohen family) there was not a single mark on the stone. And no witnesses.